who should do sweat lodges?

I have read the messages on the thread "So you wanna be an Indian" and have gotten some perspective on my question. I would like more input to the question: Who has the right to conduct sweat lodge ceremonies? I am a descendent of European settlers. My ancestors are not indigenous to Canada. I know of several people who are also descendents of settlers, who have great respect for the sweat lodge ceremony, who feel that it speaks to their spiritual journey, and who practice an adapted version of the sweat lodge. They don?t pretend to be Indians, nor do they claim that they are doing a ?Native American sweat?. They have been encouraged by a few Indians to give these sweats. We are told that the Indians who have encouraged them, are men with authority in their own traditions. However, other Indians have objected to the use of the words ?sweat lodges? and the copying of some of the sweat lodge rituals because they see it as ?cultural appropriation?. I heard a program called Tapestry (on religion) on CBC radio which features a discussion among indigenous religious leaders. The discussion was in part about this question. There was a range of opinions. I paraphrase them as ?How dare white people steal our culture after taking so much else from us?? to ?If it is done with knowledge and respect, people from other cultures can experience the sacred nature of our ceremonies and join us in our worship.? I am interested to hear other opinions. Also, can anyone direct me to books and articles which discuss this question.
Thanks for your attention,
Lynne Phillips from British Columbia

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if you want to do a sweatlodge its your decision,if you want to gove yourself a spiritname ,go ahead.its a free country.
but once you cross the boundary into the absurd and offensive its time to take a look at yourself.
nobody can ask you how would you feel if someone took something sacred from you and copied it,because you havent got a clue how you'd feel. remember,you are copying something thats special and sacred to the native people,something that isnt european,its native.so dont be surprised if there are natives that are resentful and bitter towards your"ceremony".

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if whites do sweats then they do it without meaning,may as well go into a sauna and call it a sweatlodge,cause thats alll it is then

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Actually, there is a sweat lodge tradition in many European cultures too -- though unfortunately most of the ritual and spiritual significance has been lost. Here is a quote from Medieval Folklore, by Carl LIndahl, John McNamara and John Lindow:

"Among the Balitic Finns, Sami, Russians, and Scandinavians the sauna served both practical and sacred purposes. ..Especially among the Baltic Finns and Great Russians, the sauna was associated fundamentally with concepts of the sacred. People turned to the sauna at key moments in the life cycle (e.g. birth, marriage, sickness, death) and at high points in the year (eg. Midsummer, Christmas). Healers combined the sauna's heat with forms of physical treatment, herbal cures, and mangic incantations. The Finnish term for sauna steam (Loyly) finds a cognate in the Hungarian term for soul or life force (lelek), implying the sacredness of ancient sauna concepts.

The Russian chronicler Nestor records the claim of two Russian witches in 1071 that humankind was created when God, after sweating in his heavenly sauna, dried himself with a piece of straw and threw it to the earth. The devil himself made it into a man, although the soul (associated with the divine sweat) remained eternal. [The reference to the devil probably suggests Christian influence here.]

The sauna also served as the site for the washing and final preparations of the corpse. Fourteenth and fifteenth-century Russian Orthodox clergy fought against peasant afuneral customs that included food, drink, and sauna offerings to the spirits of the dead. ..In Denmark...many wills from the period stipulate offering the poor food, ale, and sauna in memory of the deceased."

This book is looking at what was known in the middle ages, when ceremonies had already been radically altered by Christianity. Steam baths and sweat lodges are common to many cultures the world over, and you can bet that most of them originally had sacred meanings and practices, though these probably varied widely. Most European cultures had shamanic cultures at one time, too, and there are many traces of these beliefs and practices in spite of centuries of Christian efforts to wipe them out (in Anglo-Saxon poetry, for example). So people of European ancestry do have their own traditions that share some similarities with Native American traditions. Unfortunately, most of the content has been lost. As I see it, Euro-American people have every right to try to reclaim and renew these earlier pre-Christian traditions associated with purification and other aspects of spirituality -- the challenge is to find ways to rebuild sacred practices in a way that are not appropriations of Native spiritual practices and that respect the need that indigenous spiritual people have expressed to maintain their cultural integrity. Historical study can help us recover some of what has been lost, but it only goes so far.

Many North American indigenous peoples have retained their sweat lodge traditions. In cases where teachings have been lost, often the people in question have been able to learn from other groups whose traditions are still strong. I wonder if there is a RESPECTFUL way for non-Native people to ask for help from indigenous spiritual people in rebuilding this aspect of our own spiritual tradition. They may or may not be able to help us with this, given that their first priority is often restorative work within indigenous communities themselves. What we would be asking for is not to copy their particular spiritual practices, which only make sense within their culture, but to learn from their understandings of the deepest meanings and values of the sweat lodge, which we would then have to rethink in terms of our cultural traditions -- to help us reallign our values and our understanding of our place in the world.

I think it is a mistake to dismiss all non-indigenous interest in Native sweat lodge tradition as simply superficial and exploitative. Much of it is, because most North Americans lack any awareness of their own complicity in colonialism. Any spiritual exchange between us has to recognize the power relations and colonial processes and structures that we are all still enmeshed in. But I also believe that spiritual exchange, done in the right way, could help address the power relations.

Victoria Freeman

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Thanks, I'll do that.

Two thoughts after my last posting:

When I said that Native spiritual practices only made sense within their own culture(s), I really meant could only be FULLY understood within their own cultures. Obviously some of it does translate, but the full significance of various elements can only be experienced and understood by people who share the culture.

The other thing in addition to values and meanings that non-indigenous people can learn from indigenous spiritual traditions is a variety of physical, aural and other techniques for getting more fully in touch with spirit, both inside and outside of ourselves (though I don't mean to draw a sharp distinction between inside and outside here). Some techniques can also be learned through yoga, tai chi, etc. Mainstream western spiritual traditions seem to have lost some of this knowledge or hidden it away within esoteric teachings available only to a few. Again, I think there is a reworking and regrounding that needs to happen, so that we are learning from what indigenous people do, but not copying and appropriating their specific cultural way of doing it. I'm not saying this is easy!

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Hi, I have friends in Kearney NE USA that has a Inipi (sweat lodge) at their home. They have both natives and non-natives who participate. They faithfully follow traditions.

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I agree with Samia that relationship is key. And I completely agree about the corrupting influence of money in a lot of New Age spirituality. I am dismayed by how hard it is for non-Aboriginal people to find ways of practicing spirituality in community without money being involved (I mean outside of the mainstream churches).

A long time ago I tried to invite myself to a sweat, with near disastrous consequences to my friendship with Dorothy Christian, now moderator of this forum! So the first thing I learned from the sweat lodge was that I needed to understand more about what Aboriginal people meant when they talked about respect.

I myself have been in a sweatlodge only once in my life, and in that case I was invited. The circumstances and the place were extremely meaningful to me as it was on the territory of a First Nation where my grandfather had been involved with the residential school. The man who invited me to the sweat was a relative of the man who was chief of the First Nation when my grandfather was there and we knew our ancestors had had dealings with each other. I had gotten to know him while researching my book, which was all about understanding my connection to colonialism and the actions of my ancestors, and there had been a genuine heart to heart connection between us as we talked about that history. I think there was healing that we both needed that led to his inviting me and I think what happened was good for all three of the people who attended the sweat.

But after the sweat a friend was driving me home and we happened to stop in somewhere on the reserve and talk to a friend of his who was an elder. When he heard who I had done the sweat with he commented that I shouldn't just do a sweat with the first person who asked me -- that this person was not a good person to do a sweat with and that there were other people who would be better. This confused and upset me, because I had just had a very important experience, which it seemed the elder was negating. It wasn't clear to me if he was disparaging the person who had invited me because of his personal spiritual failings or because he belonged to a different medicine society. This experience taught me that involvement in a community's spiritual practices is not a simple matter if you are an outsider and don't understand the dynamics within the community.

In spite of what the elder said, I'm glad I had that opportunity to begin to learn about the sweat and do that particular piece of healing with that particular person in that particular place. But I have no idea if I will be involved in further sweats or not -- I'm not seeking out that ceremony for myself. If it comes to me again it will be a matter of the right circumstances and right people.

For me, as a non-Aboriginal person, my task is to discover and rebuild an authentic and non-exploitative spirituality that allows me to connect with people of all traditions and guides me in ethical relationships with them and with all creation. I think the teachings I've received related to the sweatlodge (both inside and out of it) have helped me move a little further along that path but have also made it clear to me that involvement with the sweat lodge is not something to be trifled with.

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I just wanted to post a link to an article by Jurgen Kremer (mentioned by Nadoway above) on how people of European ancestry can ethically connect to indigeneity.

http://www.noetic.org/publications/review/issue33/main.cfm?page=r33_Krem...

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I had the pleasure of being invited to a sweat by my fellow students a few years ago. I had my thoughts, of it being a sacred thing in the native culture. The ones that had invited me, did so, that I could experience what they did for their beliefs. Two of the students guided me through the whole process, explaining the different things as they happened.
I was very impressed. Later I was asked how I felt about the whole process,and the only thing I could say, was, it was an unbelievable experience.Later I was asked if there was anything that compared to it.
My answer was given quite a few days later. The only comparison I could think of was, that it was likening to a "christian" baptism.
Though it was at a place that done it for profit, my guides made sure I knew the reasons for all the things that went on. Different people use the sweats for their own healing, and that should be respected at all times.
The ones that do it for profit, have lost the respect of what it signifies.
I am of ? native blood, and have a true respect for all cultures.
As with any religion, people should have more respect for the ceremonies, and maybe be made aware of what the true meaning is to the people that do practice it.With this, I would like to thank the people who guided me through everything as it was an experience I will never forget.

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My personal opinion on who should run sweat lodge ceremonies would have to be that Caucasian people can run them, but it will not have the same effect as it would if the teacher was indian. Not to be racist or anything, but the power and healing you get from the indian teacher is different and in may ways, more meaningful.

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I used to live in Ontario. Over there I attended a few sweats with some really great people. Now that I'm out here in British Columbia I'm feeling a little overwhelmed. I want to get back into participating and heard of an oppertunity.

I e-mailed my friend about it (She is Ojibwe) and she was totaly frieked out at the fact that the sweat I was going to attend didn't have a feast. She also told me that it is not only disrespectful, but extrodinarily dangerous to run a fake lodge. She urged me to figure out more before I crawled in. And if I heard the name Harley Swiftdeer to turn around and run!

So what are the thoughts. Is this lodge legit? How can one tell? Nobody has ever accused me of being smart, and I'm too naive and can easily be taken in. In the lodge at home I fealt safe and secure. I'd like to revisit that.

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I couldn't agree more. I just don't want to crawl into a lodge with someone who doesn't know how to properly choose the grandfathers.

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Hmmmm..... never had a sweat or been in a sweat lodge in my life and I'm Ojibway. Of course not all native people believe in sweat lodges either. Mainly because sweat lodges are recent for most first nations people of this century. Example the Ojibways people never wore bonettes like the plains indians nor did we have hogans or teepees to live in. Most Ojibways lived in long houses like the Hurons and depending on what region you lived in. So sweat lodges are recent and not all first nations practice sweats untill the later half of this century.

In my observation this is why there is so much infighting about sweats lodge leadership. Because within the last half century First Nations cultures have crossed each others boundries that it's just one big gigantic culture. Not because we like too but because we we're forced to and that came with the creations of reservations and disenfranchisement. So it's not who shouild run it is but how we should run it?

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For those who may still come to this posting. I had trepidations about a lodge. But went.

It was great. Great people running it. Great people attending. I fealt amazing afterwards. Looking forward to going back.

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There are many posts here, which to me betray the uncertainty that a lot of Aboriginal people share concerning Aboriginal ceremonialism. But, what I think is really missing is the underlying values of the spirituality. It is one thing to learn about how you conduct yourself in a ceremony. But the more important lessons are those learned in the contemplation about why the ceremonies are conducted the way they are. From what I have been taught, and learned, we as individuals do not have any special right to criticise another?s sincere attempt to learn. The point of Life is, after all, to learn and convey that knowledge to our future generations. As individuals, we are all obligated to convey our knowledge to others. Why, after all, are we told to respect our Elders for their knowledge? Well, surprise... just as they are obligated to pass on their knowledge, so too are we inclined to pass on our knowledge throughout our lives.

Knowledge about our environment is the most important thing in life. This is why there was a strong obligation on everyone to learn for themselves. So, don?t be so harsh on those willing to learn. One should always remember that they once had to learn as well. I can?t generalize about any reluctance to share knowledge. Nor for any reasons why people claim that there is only one way of doing something. But I do know that when things are treated with too much reverence conflict over beliefs is generally an end result. My Spirituality begs for humility in such matters. What others perceive and believe is of their own choosing. I was put here to fulfil my obligations to the Creator to be respectful and mindful of my environment. And that includes other people, regardless of their beliefs. My obligations are also what beings me to this thread.

The dominant religions of today have in the past been very aggressive in indoctrinating others to their beliefs. These religions have beliefs which insist that there is a right way and a wrong way of doing things. My Saulteaux Spirituality is not like that, simply because of my obligations to respect the beliefs and practices of others. When we begin to establish a right way and a wrong way of doing things then we are transforming our spirituality into a religious based set of beliefs. Inevitably dogma would set in. As, in many respects, I believe it has.

If you want to have a sweat lodge? That?s you prerogative. If you want to learn about how someone uses a sweat lodge? Then it?s good that you asked. For my part though, although I?ve been a door keeper at several sweats, sweat lodges are not a part of my personal spirituality. The Saulteaux have only recently (past couple hundred years) taken up the practice. But from what I?ve been taught and learned the sweat lodge is intended less for personal benefit and more about self sacrifice and purification when asking for aid and advise in the aid and benefit of someone else or others. But, as you might well have guessed, other people will have differing intentions concerning the role of sweat lodges.

Because of my peripheral involvement in sweats I would only be able to provide a cursory description. Sweats are held at certain times, following or preceding other ceremonies for example. But really, don?t rely on just one source. Because, no one person can tell you everything about sweat lodges. And no single Elder will know everything about everything either.

I believe I've made my points earlier in this post. But, as for a last piece of advice Lynne Phillips, I'd say keep seeking out knowledge from different places and people but most importantly keep asking if you want to learn more. And to those who collect and horde, buy and sell your knowledge I should remind you that the knowledge you keep doesn?t belong to you. It belongs to time and the generations to come.

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I believe that if you have a true spiritual connection to the creator and you have a true spiritual teacher who teaches you about the Lodge and you are truly conducting the lodge to help others then you are able to conduct lodges. When I mentioned getting the ok from a teacher this means you must have the language (Native) to conduct or call in the spirits and bring everyone back. You also have to remember that everyone in that lodge their life is in your hands and you are truly responsible. Someone could get hurt if the lodge is not done properly. So be careful and think twice about conducting the lodge. It is not fame and fortune or being popular or respected or looked up too. It is spiritual work done through the Creator and spirits.

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Thanks for your reply. I wasn't asking for myself. I would gladly participate in any sacred ceremony if I were invited, but I am not going to appropriate the ceremonies and symbols of other faiths and cultures. I have great respect for native spirituality whose beliefs are similar to many of the world's religions. All religions have their own metaphors which speak to people in their culture (and sometimes to people in other cultures as well). However, I think religious "tourism" is disrespectful to the Spirit and not likely to be a satisfying spiritual journey.

My own opinion is that outsiders shouldn't use the ceremonies of other faiths, unless they go through the training and acceptance that makes them "insiders" even if not born to the tradition.

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You should look at Jurgen Kremers work. He ran a Ph.D. program called Recovery of Indigenous Mind and wrote a book called Looking for Yegdressal something like that. You can look him up on the internet.

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Hello,

My name is Jessie, I live in Holland (Europe) and for over 20 years now I'm campaigning for the (religious) rights of the American Indian people, especially those in prison (see my website).
And I think the sweatlodge is a very sacred ceremony and only has to be lead by American Indians. If they invite other races to the lodge that is no problem of course, but if other races start building their own sweat lodge!?
No way! That is cultural theft if you ask me!!!
I don't support that at all.....

Regards,
Jessie Metz
www.americanindianprisoners.com

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I have been a student of the sweat lodge for over twenty years. Many people have opinions of something that they have little or no experience in. The sweat is above all a spiritual teaching - it is not owned by anyone - it cannot be owned. It has cultural roots in many peoples and those cultural roots must be respected. If you read "Black Elk Speaks" or "The Sacred Pipe" you will see that the sweat is much more profound than a cultural item. It is a teaching for the whole world. This is the eleventh hour and if we do not restore our integrity of relationship with the Earth - humans will cease to exist. I am not saying that anyone can do a sweat with integrity but the the cultural ownership that some want to claim will only stifle the spirit and no one has the right, no matter how well reasoned, to stifle the spirit. The issue is how do we make this profound teaching available to as many people as we can and maintain integrity. There are many Native American teachers who are making the sweat available and there are many non- Indians who are, with integrity, practicing the sweat lodge. We can share the sweat and at the same time be respectful of Native American culture.

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Hi

The initial teaching behind the sweat is purification. While your in the lodge it should be completely dark. This is to capture the essence of being born into life, and while you are in the sweat prayers are given, and in the darkness you will find yourself. If you are a person that has been influenced, in any manner of degree by a religion that preaches of hell. Please leave your former fears at the door, because inorder to take yourself into the realm of self revelation you must sweat for a long while in great heat, and one can see how the heat may be wrongly be interpreted as hell.

Also Please understand that just like any other culture if you decide to follow this way of life it would be good to sweat with every moon, as you are on your way to becoming different spiritually, and consequently a little towards what Eropeans call "uncivilized and savage," or a little towards being Native. In Native country the natural world is celebrated, and each one of the 13 moons reveal a new liberal journy that must be considered each in its own right. A concept that holds no one god or power to be absolute, but to be a spoke in the whole shceem of all things. A view very different from contemporary society which celebrates only 12 theoretical months based on souly money.

Truth and Unity

Mizhaakwod

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hello
this is the moderator. Personally, I get really tired of people "freaking out" about how things are done in other people's territories. If a person respects the ways of "the land" they are living on, I believe you're safe. when in Ojibway country do it the way they practise their sweat, when in other people's territory, find out what is the "respectful" way to honor the sweat. Just my thoughts.

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I am very interested in going to a sweat lodge and participating. Can you tell me where they are? Thanks

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Aanii(Hello): Victoria, it was very interesting to hear of the Traditional Sweat Lodges in many European countries, I for myself have heard similliar stories that relate to what you have written here.

However, it's not that my peoples don't want to share their beliefs or their customs, they need to regain the trust that was broken many times over repeatedly and that will take time for my people to heal from. We go back many many generations of the Children, Men, Women and the Elders who were rejected from practicing their beliefs and customs. The Sweat Lodge is the womb of our Mother the Earth so when we re-enter her womb we relearn of ourselves to be, and our values to respect and to take care of ourselves so we can the care of the Mother, the Earth as she has always taken care of us. In the Sweat Lodge, we go there as well to cleanse the Mind, Body and the Spirit so the Soul can do it's purpose in this life as we know it to be. So, the Sweat Lodge for my people is very sacred, just like the place where your people go to be reborn in the Sweat lodge you call,"Churches". My people will relearn their traditional values and regain what was taken away because our customs and beliefs where mistaken as practicing "Black Magic" or practicing the "Devil's" work, either way, it was misunderstood by religious faiths, the Clergymen, who came here to assimulate us into believing that our beliefs were wrong and their beliefs were the right way to speak to "God" and ask for his forgiveness, for being "Indian".

My suggestion to the people that are not of the Indigenous Culture, don't be offended because you are "rejected" from entering into the Sweat Lodge, learn to be alittle more patient with yourselves and Indian people who are there, Show them that you are willing to learn of their customs and beliefs and willing to work but more so listen by not say anything. When it comes time for spiritual growth and you are in need for healing, you maybe invited to participate in the Sweat because they can see that you are respecting their way of life. Even, if you are not invited into the Sweat Lodge, help with the work that is needed to be done and listen with a kind and a caring heart.

As, you work in silence, put yourself in our moccusins and ask yourself these questions, why was my customs and beliefs such a threat to your churches, and what gave your churches the right to take our culture away from us. This is our way of life and a belief system that keeps us in balance with ourselves and our surroundings. So, when it comes to something you value the most in your life, and it is taken away from you, wouldn't you feel very angry. When you come to that point in your life to want to know of this "Anger", then you will know the real truth with understanding. Are you apart of the solution? or Are you the part of the problem? Healing comes from inside of you and the pain you are hurting by is released inside or outside of the Sweat when sitting by the Sacred Fire.

There are some Traditional Elders who are from different Indigenous communities that accept, people who are not Indian to participate in their Sweats so, yes there is change being made.

Here is something to remember that I will share with you all:

Grandfathers

The Seven Gifts

Nbwaakaawin-To cherish Knowledge is to know Wisdom.

Zaagidwin- To know Love is to know Peace.

Mnaadendiwin- To Honour all of creation is to have Respect

Aakde'win- Bravery is to face foe with Integrity.

Gwekwaadziwin- Honesty is facing a situation is to be Brave.

Dbasendizwin- Humilityis to know yourself as a sacred part of the creation.

Debwewin- Truth is to know of this things.

Miigwech (Thank You)

Skide-nini

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I think in this great country of Canada native people are searching for who they are for the most part because of the awareness happening all around us with th Residential Schools and the history of OUR people. So it is not surprising to hear so many different thoughts and opinions. My brother has practised the ceremonies for over twenty years because he had a good teacher and he was searching out the meaning of his cultur, and traditions. now he's gone to the SPIRT world.(the teacher). The way I understand it to be in a sweat is to give yourself to the ceremony that is taking place. I am a Native and I come from a residential school upbringing so sweat lodges were never mentioned growing up until 20 some years ago, in my part of the country.The culture and,traditions are a way of life, for those who pratice it, known as the RED road, or THE JOURNEY. I know that this way of life is taken very seriously and is sacred if you come to that level of awareness and understanding with knowledge and respect.

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all you said is very respectful of you,and to me thats speaks of a very thoughtful ,and respectful person,thank you.
theres people out there who think all a person has to do is get a spirit name and do a sweat and they're a native.theres more to native culture then a few practices.theres respect for elders,feasts,dream symbols,the offering of tobacco,etc.a way of looking at an elder and going over to show respect by saying hello and shaking hands.
being respectful and not asking silly questions when someone is speaking of spiritual matters,and by the way any question can be considered silly if you interrupt someone.and theres alot more.

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Hello ,

I lived in mew Mexico for ten years when i was young. I lived in the mountains on a big peice of land runiing aonall sides with national parks and the taos pueblo. The people there consulted before buying the land and built it with the help of the elders and the people always continued to use it as they always had, often visiting and staying and also doing their own thing, often we also would take wood or something , help with the corn, look after people... cause we all were like family.. with all the usal family type stuff... but the amazing thing was , everyone just did what they did, we had moslems , buddhists , sufis, jungians, israeli's palestining, german , jews, and a lot of weirdo's and hippie and new agers.... and hispanic , latino, black , single , gay , lesbian , bi , even and transgender folk....

all i remeber is praying ... feelling the dreams on clear crisp silent deep winters nights, the footprint of deer or maybe even elk.

i remeber laying high on the ridge in a blanket amongst the elm, in the thick snow.... listening to something deep inside myself ...

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good insight

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Why should it be cultural theft to do something that is one of the most ancient ritual of all cultures and nationalities?. Why don't you find out in depth about what you are talking about before you give such negative judgemental remarks to the public?. Keep them to yourself and let people do their own rituals. Not everybody has the indian nationality. Ideas like the one you said make intolerance able to be still alive today.

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When people finally decide to walk the road of our Ancestors they are brought forth by Gitsch Manitou/ Creator "not man". When they go into a Sacred sweat lodge to pray they cross a threshold of centuries. There is no practice makes perfect, you either have the calling and are guided by the Spiritworld or you are not. Who are we to tell another human being how to worship? I personaly believe the deciscion lays wih Creator and Spiritworld not us. People can go to sweat and lose weight or for health but there is a big difference betwen a Sacred lodge and non sacred. The Sacredness of our Sweat Lodges lays with the respects of the one who is leading the ceremony and all who participate. Remember the words spoken inside that all of us are equal in here no better no lessor. We must adhere to the Sacred principals we have been shown, If we do not then all will be lost forever. Too many people are cross dressing the cultural ways with some kind of ritualistic goo goo. My advice is "observe, then decide what is best for you because not all sweats are alike just as not all Sacred Pipe Ceremonies are alike. Look at the human beings, We all are different.
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Hello I am a white women . I have found healing within the native communities for myself from what has taken place in my life .. prior to this I had not found this healing. When I was little I grew up in the country for the most part... I was lucky to have the trees and animals to speak with ... this was where my relief from my home was found for me.... in the forests... I learned a great deal about the ways of life in those daysin the forest ... but as I grew older my life started to become more painful as more and more bagage was added mostly because I did not have anyone to speak with about the things that spiritually I was seeing.. compounded with the trauma .. my heart was strong so was my spirit . I went to church prayed spoke to a minsiter who invited me to go away for the wk-end ...then I went to a women minister who was stuck herself.. in judgment.. and fear ... still no healing came that brought me personal healing I was in trouble .. the dark times ruled the light ... I beleive that the Creator lead me to to heal with the kind people I did proceed to heal with.. I have met many since ....I was so tramatized by the abuse and did not wish to blame... most places prior I went to looked in a way that either blamed my family or blamed me... I wanted to heal the wounds that were real.. raw.. eating my spirit .. taunting me in my sleep nightly.. I feel this.. wherever the Creator sends me and kindness and respect is offered and given as well... that is where I am to be..I feel that the roads we have taken have been broken by fear ... survival.. mine has for sure... many people wished to teach me lodge but out of respect the things that come... I do for people because I know how it feels to have no help when you need it ... ( I do not practise lodge)I don't mind what colour or where they are from... if something comes to my heart I do it... out of respect I do not claim to be anything more than a person who has suffered... and listens ... I have learned many things by going into other cultures besides my own .. the search for someone to assit me to heal lead me to many places and cultures ..... funny thing is I did not know my own background... the closets are full in my family ... apprently we are Irish/Scottish/German/Jewish/Chinese/English/ Native/ etc...ours is mixed up a blending so me... I am standing outside of things and saying... okay so where do I belong.. in this.. the Creator I know does not I feel , the one I know in my heart ...see's colour or race .. we do... I do know this I am a women.. I have a heart .. and wish my Grandchildren and children / Husband / Mother/Father/Grandfathers/ Grandmothers/Sister/Brothers/Aunties/Uncles/ all my relations that walk this planet to feel good.. when everyone stops fighting about who is entitiled to healing lets just share.... do what we can ... for each other ..be the person we would have show up.. I was a person who was afraid that people did not care .. tramatised by things that happened ...

be well everyone.. Marsha ...

Re: who should do sweat lodges?

continued : sorry i was interuppted here ...

so , my whole point to this story , i was not in any way looking for a " experience or to learn culture ... but there i was and as a part of living there things just happened as a part of the cycle of living life there.... same weather , same fires , same water issues , and same love of country....

so one morning i met an old man , i was baking bread and he was outside looking across the valley before he headed up the track on the ridge ... i took him some tea and a roll fresh from my oven.. and started chatting.. next thing i know as he left he asked me to come to his home later to meet osme people, he said , come , i want u to meet some locals.

i didnt even have a clue.. thats how young and un informed i was... sure i knew he was a person form the pueblo, but so what ...

so i went , took some bread and flowers and next thing i know i was invited to loads stuff... and learnt a lot , mostly about family and respect.

went to loads sweat lodges, lots other things... and always felt welcomed and like i was with family. i never ever was treated anything else but with kindness and love... this is true for me.

I came back here to australia, i am indigenous here, but thru that experience i learnt more and wanted now to know more about my own culture and ways and what was similar etc... and waht was real for me.

i see many here advertising , hey ... they spent a week in a sweat at some conference and now they are sweat lodge leaders , so they say , trained by lakota elders , so they say ... and of course charge a lot of money.... i always feel so upset and shocked ... cause somehow its just not how it should be , something is missing....

see , so even if people try to imitate , or do things from the wrong intention , really , its not gonna help , not really.... and i see this here also with our traditions and culture , people ripping things off , saying they are experts , shamans is a big deal now, everyone running off to peru or brazil or someplace , doing drugs ( not sacrement ) not really .. just llokking for one more experience.... this makes me sad .. i feel lucky so lucky

so , i dont know what im saying here, just my experiences and feelings really ... but for me i think relationship is the key ... there needs to eb a realtionship to the things we do , an understanding , a reason....

if your reason is to do good , to help the future to make the world a better place, to spread love and acceptance and help heal the wounds we all bare.. then far out and go for it.... but if it harms , steals, is for you and you alone and your dollars in the bank, then maybe go think about it for a while longer... truly,,,,, wherever we stand is sacred land, whoever we help is a human being , whenever we sing , play a drum , burn sage , smoke with eucyltus or pray and do ceremonies , the spirits of the world and ancestors are happy as the way has not been lost....

thats what i was told.... the spirits are dancing ... thats what i was told , when i one day after a farewell sweat was held for me... when i thanked the people for always sharig with me a non Indian... not from that place , when i thanked them for welcoming me to their land and said how honoured i had been to be their friends, i said Tellus , is it ok that i have done all this , he said , .... samia , the spirits are dancing , cause they are remebered.... that made me smile....

so..... whatever your way... let it be for that ... i pray it is so and that all my relations are healed , free from suffering and that today is a good day !

love to all
samia

Re: who should do sweat lodges?

Not that I take any personal offence - but I'd like to point out that sauna has until recently been considered a sacred place by Finns - for many it still is. It's not a sweat lodge, but it definitely is a special place and very important for the Finnish culture even today. The sauna cleanses and heals the body, soothes the mind and many other things. Even today, the majority of Finns grow up following at least some of the traditional sauna behaviour and ceremonies. A Finnish proverb says that people should behave in the sauna as they do in church. And just like any part of one's cultural behaviour - as the sweat lodge in the native culture - you learn it through living it, as part of your culture, and it grows into you. As a non-Native/ non-Finn, the least you can do is to respect and listen and learn at least when you're with people to whom it really matters.

That other cultures have chosen to use sauna for other purposes (as purely for cleaning or sexual meeting places - the latter of which it definitely is NOT for Finns) is none of my business. But I'm little tired of people's arrogant ignorance, when they are trying either to belittle 'white' man's understanding of sweat lodge or use of sweat lodges.

By the way, I think very much in the same lines with Lynne. I just merely reacted to this eternal bashing of sauna :-)

Re: who should do sweat lodges?

"Indians," come from "India"
My nation is, "Ojibway"!

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